I’m a little bored with writing what I do every day, it’s the same same same! I jump on Sunday’s, I go on date with Francois on Saturday, I do my cardio, I take pictures of like everyting. And I LOVE my life! But feel like taking up some topics that is on my mind! I got this message on insta a time a go! And I wanted to share with you my thoughts about this stuff! Don’t worry, I’m going to go back to my everyday post, probably tomorrow 😉
Many times when you see people that have EVERYTING other people that feel like they don’t have everything they want feel the need to criticize them.
When I was growing up moved from home and went to school in Sweden, I was surrounded by girls and boys that had MUCH better horses than me, and much nicer things, Horsetrucks and cars.
Even though me and my father borrowd as much as the budget allowed us, and bought the best possible horse it was not half as good as many others! But I was never jealous of those girls! I loved to watch them and be inspired by them!
We even bought a really good saddle for this horse! Me and my father was looking at Stockholm horseshoe in Globen, and he saw a Luc Childeric saddle, he said, the new superstar horse is going to have a really good saddle! So I got it😍 I was so so proud!
One girl who was at my school in Sweden to train from, she was also from Norway, – she had with her 3 horses and one groom! Nothing els to do in the day but riding the 3 horses! This girl is a beautiful girl and incredible kind! She’s smart! She had a lot of international rutine, she rode very goood, she has really good taste in fashion and I got really inspired by her! Thank you T💖
Even though I had the stable working every 3 weekend and was mucking out like 30 boxes a day, walking with horses to the paddock and feeding, I was always excited for her to come back on Monday and tell us how the show was! And I dreamed about that I would be so good that I also could do it one day!
Being good and talented is not always enough, when I worked for a Olympic rider in Norway I was set to ride the horses if the rich girls the days they did not have time to come! I was really good in dressage and got loads of compliments for it! I was actually Champion of the North of Norway 3 years in a row as young rider! I was happy when the girls came back and gave me feed back on my job! I was never angry that they could sleep all day and go shopping and stuff and I was set to ride their horse! I was proud about it! Even though you are good and work hard does not mean that you will be so lucky to jump the big classes! You also have to be a good person and give something back, so that people feel that they get some profit in return for giving you a chance! Before I got my job at Alfarvad they gave me a horse to ride that had started to stop, when I got him he had done 120 with a stop and two down on his last show. I rode him clear in 145 and after this I got a job offer from them!
I showed the owner that I had solutions, that I did not give up and that I could sell a lot of horses from her! So i was valuable for her business! Remember that if you apply for a job, make sure you first of all state what you can do for your boss, before yo write what you want for yourself!
I look up to a lot of persons, and many people inspire me! Here is some of them:
❤️FRANCOIS❤️ my hero! Who has lost everyting and bulid him self up again 100 times with out any support from his family! Who survived so many difficult things, normal business man sadly we read in the news papers regularly kill themself over just one of the atleast 5 extreamly hard things he has gone trough alone! Baby, you will never be alone again! I will be with you for ever! He’s a man that has so much knowledge about so many things! So intelligent, love to learn from you
Edwina Tops! She’s a true fighter who has proved to everybody that farytails do come true! She won a lot, is a great horse woman and such a competitive rider! She also has great style, was called AND SHE IS INDEED THE GUCCI GILR” when she was sponsored by them! She has great style and I am sure she will be a amazing mother
My trainer Sylve Søderstrand! Not only cause he’s a great rider, a TOP NOCH coach who has won so many medals but also he is a incredible strong man who I admire because of his strength to walk with his head high and stay positive when it’s a shit storm around him!
Nellie Berntssn, a 16 year old Kid from Sweden that has he bravery of a lion and supports her own carrier with her socialmedia works! She’s a talented rider who had to live with a lot of shit from the grown up word, but still remains a positive fighter who loves horses and are kind with the people she meets!
My best fiend Trine! Who is kind and forgiving toward everybody! Who can see clearly in every situation, and never says a bad word about anybody! She also a very very good rider who I hope soon will be back in completions and have a lot of amazing horses, that she breads herself ⭐
Carl Lagerfeld! Such a GREAT designer and FASHION IKON! Being a designer myself I truly understand all the work, effort and hours he puts in to create TOP quality and functional clothes, handbags and accessories we can be lucky to buy! I really want it have his creation, when I get something new from Chanel I study how he has put every seem, why it’s just like that and her inspired by creating my own quality products for all of us to wear!
Allesandro Michele, the new designer of Gucci! Who dears to go his own way, that mixes patherns and colors that I thought would be a ugly combination! Who has his style and his vision and opened the eyes of the world for something different and unique that! When he first came to Gucci with all this I extreamly unliked it! I wanted ONLY the clean cuts in the classic shapes and colors! The Gucci bit and more neutral creations. But now I love and admire him! He’s the inspiration of JEM ONE SEEM with Pink! I study how he sews his products and how he mixes the different colors and work with different garments in one product! He really brought back the Gucci red and green web and mix it with everyting ⭐
John Hickey, one of the best riders in the world! Who I PRAY will recieve a horse that does him justice! One of the greatest persons I know, my BEST FRIEND, a fantastic husband for Cassandra and a super dad for this boy and two girls
Anneli Taraldsen, that I have known my whole upbringing! She’s a loving example that you can do whatever you want, and be who you are even if some “people put you in a box” she’s a very loyal BFF, and CRAZY BRAVE!! She travels the world alone! Now she’s taking care of the horses with PERFECTION
Janne LinDANGER 😉 I meet her at first when she was only 15 years old! She went with me to Arezzo with 5 horses, party all night and took care of the horses like a OLD PRO GROOM without making a single mistake! She’s a GREAT girl, and a TOP BFF