First of all, Thank you Anna for taking time to comment on my blog!! It made me very happy! It’s really GREAT!
I WISH PEOPLE WOULD COMMENT MORE HERE! Would make it much more fun! And please SHARE the blog on social media!
Second, my opinion of your comment!
It’s great and also interesting how you think about “THE SEXY GROOM” , how being called that “looks” differently in different peoples eyes and society! Let’s discuss
SEXY GROOM! What a compliment and a honor also! But what does it mean? Degrading? REALLY?
Just because a woman is sexy and beautiful , receives comment on her attractive appearances,- does that make her a bad worker or downgraded in any way?
IT SHOULD NOT
If you read my blog I often mention how I come between 06.00 and 07.00 in the morning to ride one of the horses before the class! I often have pictures of a well cleaned horse, in a clean stable, THAT EARLY! So anyone that sees that must understand that the SEXY GROOM must at least have been up at 05.00 to do all this!
I see it and everyone at the show sees it! I often put out pictures on insta of the horses in the boxes, all of them have 2 water buckets each that at all time have been full AND CLEAN, I have not seen a horse standing with half water more than 2 min before THE SEXY GROOM have refilled it!
The horses boxes have always been perfectly cleaned, so has the tack! And it has been a lot of post of her alone or us together walking the horses.
Me and the horses has always looked great to each class, and I have been able to warm up super with her in the warm up every time! Never complained about it! And the results shows harmony and well being between horse/rider/groom
So how can it be possible that anyone here, or in the real world can think that a compliment like being called SEXY GROOM is degrading?
Have you never thought about that Helle maybe is a girl that has worked to have a body like that, that has spend hours in the gym to be strong! And specially then other girls that often can be cruel and jealous of each other can accept that men think she is beautiful and sexy and call her sexy groom! And that us other girls admire her for her appearances, not only her amazing body, but also the ability to stay so clean and fresh while taking care of 4-5 horses in 35+ degrees?
Not degrading at all!
It’s more degrading not to be supportive of other beautiful women, and understand that just because a woman gets the compliment of being sexy or gorgeous, has nothing to do with her ability to work or not!
Women should embrace each other’s qualities, if it’s beauty, mathematic skills, ability to work hard and preform under pressure or all of the above in one perfect
AND PLEASE REMEMBER NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOU ARE CALLED, OR WHERE YOU ARE IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW
Y O U A R E