Again THANK YOU Anna for sharing your opinions with us so we can put a light on this topic and talk about it!
Her is Anna’s answer to my previous post
She also put these links with it! That you can see in the previous post!
Please Anna, I’m not angry with your opinion, I just want to clarify a couple of your points, to share my opinion! And I am very grateful that you have started this discussion that is very important
I HAVE A VERY VERY STRONG OPINION OF WHAT YOU ARE WRITING HERE, AND WHAT YOU ARE ASSUMING!
NOT FOR FEMINISTS? REALLY???
First things first: what does people now a days call Sexy on social media? Not to be cruel, but most usual it’s not the “type” of Helle, the Sexy Groom!
This is typical what we call Sexy today
The typical sexy on social media eats smoothie bowls and salads!
So you are taking about calling Helle, -sexy groom as a way to put pressure on looking perfect, beautiful and sexy all the time. And that the stables should be a free zone where you can be yourself.
Please open your eyes! When Helle is called SEXY GROOM we are proving the exact opposite!
Helle eats bread, she even eats sandwiches that I have made for her with marshmallows on, we are eating pizza, pasta and ice cream like every day!!
The whole thing with SEXY GROOM started in San Remo, it was the first show for Helle with us! And the first show for her as a groom ever!
We had 5 horses with us and the classes was going very quick so it was a lot of pressure on for her!
She had with her a friend to help out also, but it was the first time for the friend as well. And Helle had the main responsibility!
Some of my male rider friends noticed how Helle worked in high speed with very good precision and they also told me she is a beauty !
One of them said “she’s the sexy groom” ! And so it started!
I did not know Helle so well at that time so i did not even tell here that people was calling her the sexy groom!
-But I did before we left for San Giovanni! Then we knew each other really well and I thought it was funny and inspiring! At first she did not even believe me, but the SEXY GROOM spread fast, and after a couple of days in San Giovanni they started to call her SEXY GROOM to her face!
It was not before the last week she got the SEXY GROOM t-shirt! And the t-shirt is not typically sexy at all! It’s just a normal unfitted t-shirt with a round neck, does not show any cleavage at all. But she still looked sexy with it, not only because she (according to me and many others) has a incredible sexy, healthy body, but also because of her confidence!
Helle has not at any point at all taking it as a critic or downgraded, rather feel empowered by it! At least I have! It’s a inspiration, for some many reasons!
It beats the prototype:
Like the other girls in the riding adds!
Helle, the SEXY GROOM modeling for PRO HORSE INTERNATIONAL IN MY OPINION SHE LOOKS PERFECT AND IM PROUD TO MODEL HER IN JEM BREECHES !
If you start to talk that this is not a page to be for feminist’s that’s really misunderstood! Can’t you see that exactly what we are here! That you can look exactly how you want, and be confident in that, be sexy and get compliments from both women and men! And take those compliments with pride, because you know that people not only see your appearances but also what a great person you are!
And even if someone just appreciate Helle’s appearances, because they don’t know her, it’s nothing wrong with that ether!
What pressure social media puts is individual, I decide in what grade seeing pictures like this should effect me. And how I should feel about it. And if it makes me feel bad I have to do a better job to learn how to control my emotions
I have a totally different type of body than Helle, and if someone should tell me I’m sexy I would take it as a compliment, not “WHAT, you say I’m sexy, that’s so offensive, I am so much more than that” ! NO I WOULD NOT REACT LIKE THAT, because I know who I am, I’m confident in ME, and I am confident that people also see how I am in a total packet! Helle being called SEXY GROOM had nothing to do with body pressure, or pressure to look perfect! She looks beautiful, fit and strong without having to weight 51 kg!
So the whole thing with SEXY GROOM is actually a step in the right direction when it comes to body, appearance and attitude for the whole social media world that has followed us!
That you have to look super skinny and eat clean all the time to be noticed and be sexy